Thursday, December 25, 2008

How to develop a good relationship online

Revealing some parts of us online, builds trust. It can be your emotional side or it can be the things that matter to you most in your real life

For example, consider these statements:
  • If you are searching answers for things in your life like me, you can try xyz (you tell about yourself indirectly here)

  • What a match, you love xyz, me too !!!! (when you know your partner's preference)
  • Merry xyz (try a greeting, something as simple as this will work)
  • Have a xyz day !! (being polite often shows you care about person on the other end)

These are the few ways you can reveal the "real you" in your email / chat / any type of online conversation

If you are looking for a long term relationship, don't pretend to be someone who you are not


The timing of how much you reveal about yourself is crucial to determine, whether a relationship will continue to proceed or not

For example:
  • How quick are you, while talking to your partner in an online chat ( talk leisurely, say after a minute or two, it shows you are eager to talk but are not desperate )
  • About Orkut scraps, don't respond immediately. Take your time, when you are free, post a scrap to your partner


The best part about creating relationship online are people who lack social skills or are shy can also develop good relationships online

3 comments:

Traveller said...

I have tested all methods, I presented in this post.

If you have any further queries then you can email me or just post a comment here

Anonymous said...

Factual! needs more attention.... good...

Traveller said...

I have updated the content in the post. Thanks for being a critic